Honeymoon revisited

Last week, as part of our tenth wedding anniversary celebrations, we took the children to our honeymoon location - Italy's Amalfi coast. Rather wonderfully, nothing much had changed; the coastal hills were still laden with lemon groves, rose gardens and vegetable patches. The air was warm and sweet with jasmine, the turquoise Mediterranean sea sparkled as the sun played with its waves, and the luxury yachts were still to-ing and fro-ing from the harbour just as they had been ten years ago. What had changed, of course, was our situation - we were no longer the childless newly-weds of 2003; rising at midday, sunbathing and reading by the pool, boldly trekking the cliff-routes fancy-free and often map-free, or feasting on fabulous local food and wine till the early hours.

However, our honeymoon-revisited was actually far from hindered by the presence of our children. They really were brilliant company; they loved the idea of relaxing whilst reading their holiday books like Mummy and Daddy, they had the stamina to walk for miles - often up and down hundreds of hillside steps  - and they got the whole 'lying-in' thing brilliantly. And of course, as is the wondrous thing about children, they saw the whole holiday as a series of new and exciting opportunities to play. And for me, that alone made going back absolutely worthwhile. Our children helped us see it, and experience it, through their playful eyes. We reminisced a little, yes - it's impossible not get a little misty-eyed when returning to such a paradise - but there wasn't time to let wistful memories bring us down, or make us feel old for too long. Our two full-of-beans lovelies soon brought us back to the present; wanting to show us what they'd found, or to tell us what they were doing. Here are a few of the invitations to play they so cleverly discovered during our holiday:

Amalfi's fountain turned out to be a very classy outdoor water-table...

Atrani's piazza floor, with its distinctive design, was great for all manner of running and jumping games...

... and the winding footpaths leading to and from the piazza became an exciting spot for many a game of Sardines and 40-40.

Amalfi's beach was perfect for paddling...

...and for treasure-seeking - there were some amazing sea-ceramics to be found.

Al fresco dining was made hilarious with fun and games with napkins...

... and walking up lots of steps was almost easy-peasy when looking out for lurking lizards.

With rose gardens aplenty, fallen petal collection was a must for perfume-making sessions back at base...

.... and a boat-trip to the isle of Capri allowed Daisy to stay up front, and in an imaginary world of her own no doubt, for the entire journey.

A beautiful garden provided a chance to become statues...

...and a crystal clear swimming pool was an invitation not to be missed by my little water-baby.

I know going on a honeymoon with children isn't everyone's cup-of-tea - but revisiting the location of ours with our kids was simply fantastic. Who knows what we'll all be doing in ten years time, maybe our children won't want to go anywhere with us by then, but I'm pencilling in Honeymoon Part III to Amalfi in my diary anyway. From here it looks like a fine idea.

Hip Hampstead Heath

On Sunday we had an action-packed visit to Hampstead Heath. My eldest was chief map reader and my youngest was in charge of checking that we were, at all times, headed towards an ice cream vendor. The 3 mile circular walk was from a favourite book of ours - Adventure Walks for Families in and around London - and we completed it in about 3 hours of glorious afternoon sunshine.

First, our walk took us to the top of Parliament Hill (the second highest land point in London) where we spotted famous buildings on the skyline and tried not to step on the young, cool crowd gathered at its summit. There were several kites being flown in the only breeze to be found across the city; thus it brilliantly lived up to its nickname of Kite Hill. But what really caught my children's attention was a nearby twinkling bejewelled tree. On closer inspection we discovered that its spinning decorations were in fact empty drinks cans lovingly suspended from the branches by thin thread; fabulous.

Then we started our descent, down a grassy path towards the ponds. With around twenty-five ponds on the Heath, built about 300 years ago to supply London with water*, they now each have a different use. On our walk we passed the men's bathing pond...

...and the model boating pond (sadly, there were no boats afloat).

Although our route led us away from the women's bathing pond, where I would have happily plunged - it was incredibly hot by now, it did provide us with some welcome shade in the ancient oak woods of the Iveagh Bequest. At this point the boys and their map got slightly ahead of us girls, but we didn't mind; Daisy was in a fairy-inspired reverie by now. Every tree and nook was part of fairyland apparently, and she sang to herself as we strolled through the shady dell...

I see the moon and the moon sees me

Over the head of the old oak tree.

Why do the stars all shine on me?

Shine on the one I love.

Out of the woods and into the heat of the sun we caught up with the boys. Daisy checked (again) that we were definitely en route to ice cream - she was seriously flagging now. Kenwood House peeped over the horizon in the nick of time and helped us motivate Daisy ice cream-wards - up the grassy, well-manicured bank towards its cafe.

After a long rest, water, ice creams of course, and a quick game of frisbee, we headed back. Our route took us past a fabulous Henry Moore sculpture. And this was where Daisy decided that she'd had enough walking. She was finished. I can't remember how we got her moving again but I do remember there were tears, a tantrum, a cooling down period, a deal struck, then hugs and finally reluctant compliance. Oh dear. Happily her spirits lifted suddenly when we walked through the amazing birch wood made golden by the setting sun (pictured at the top). Buddy and Daddy led us up our final ascent of the day - Kite Hill again - in time for a last look at the fast-sinking sun along with all the achingly hip dudes with their guitars, cigarettes and alcohol.

As we finished our walk, striding downhill towards the station, we could see the city's skyline burnished gold, reflecting the sunset. It was a particularly cool way, according to Buddy, to finish our exciting outing. So cool in fact, I'm glad I tried out the 'hipstamatic' camera App on my phone for the photos - I think it captures hip Hampstead Heath rather well.

* from Adventure Walks with Families in and around London by Becky Jones and Clare Lewis.